What's The Twin Flame Soul Merge? Does It Happen In The Physical or Ethereal Realm?

Another repost by request...

The Twin Flame Soul Merge refers to when the two divided soul beings incarnate in the two separate human bodies merge together and “reunion” takes place, thus the soul becomes one again.

I’ll explain… My dear and I were located very far apart when we initially connected, and our Soul Merge happened once we met in the physical. This is how it goes for most. However, I’m open to the fact that it’s very possible to experience a Twin Flame Soul Merge without having ever met physically or even a Soulmate Chakra connection for that matter. I’ll tell you why…

Twin Flames are two halves of one soul incarnate in two separate human bodies: one half male energy and the other half, female energy. Twins are in their 3rd and final incarnation. During the first two incarnations, the soul being was incarnated as one whole soul being; as one person, either a male or a female. During incarnation number one, the soul was not yet divided, and the soul being was incarnate as a male (or a female.) During incarnation number two, the soul being is still a whole soul being and is not yet divided, and is incarnated as one person, a male or a female (typically, if they were a male during the 1st incarnation, they will be female in the 2nd.) Then, we reach this, the 3rd and final incarnation…

During this, the 3rd and final incarnation, the soul is split into the two halves: one half male and the other half female energy. Therefore, the twins are YIN AND YANG. One will typically possess all of the ABC traits while his partner will possess all of the XYZ traits, for example. During this 3rd and final incarnation as divided soul beings, these twin flames embark on their journey to union.

The purpose of the journey to union is to achieve union and the purpose of the union is the Divine Mission which is the reason why twins exist in the first place.

Twins connect in the physical realm when both are ready. How will you know when you’re both ready? Divine Timing ensures an accurate, seamless connection in the physical realm. This physical connection refers to 3-D connections including communication, and not necessarily being in close physical proximity to one another.

In MOST cases, the soul merge occurs the instant the twin flames connect in the physical 3-D realm and touch one another in the physical such as a hug or a hand shake. While telepathic communication and great empathy exist between one another prior to this aspect of connection, this physical 3-D connection is usually when the Soul Merge takes place.

Is it possible to experience a Soul Merge prior to physical connection? Well, let’s look at this spiritually and practically as well as scientifically.

While I am not God and cannot speak for Him, I don’t see why that isn’t possible. After all, anything is possible. On a side note, I came to this incarnation still carrying with me certain pre-birth memories and a mission so to speak which was communicated to me long before birth, that I have carried with me all of my life and didn’t talk about with really anyone until the past few years. This “message” if you will, referred to creation, to origin. While I can engage in such gifts, I did not “download” or “channel” my purpose, message or mission later on in life as I keep seeing many others claim to have done. I was born simply knowing what it was, and more so, the meaning behind why and why we exist at all. It was daunting, this “meaning of life,” so to speak, but I realized pretty young and early on that I was required to complete my purpose of assisting others back to truth and origin. I’m not alone; many other twins also carry with them certain pre-birth memories too. Since the last year of the Mayan Calendar 2012, most have been able to connect with one another via various forms of media with the interest of completing their Divine Mission. That said, I suppose God in His infinite wisdom put us all here at the right time. But I digress…

Everything is made up of energy, right down to the last grain of sand on the barely visible blade of grass stuck on the bottom of your shoe. Energy can be created, shifted and manipulated and changed. Once it has been created, you can’t dissolve it but you can shift or change it or shrink or grow it -and, CONNECT IT. This goes back to quantum physics and quantum mechanics. Soul energy is just that: another form of energy.

You see, I have seen first hand COUNTLESS Ideal Romantic Soulmate connections experience Chakra connections without having even ever set foot in the same country, let alone in the same room. The signs, syncs and symptoms of Ideal Romantic Soulmates and many other types of soulmate connections are practically identical to that of twin Flame, so there you have it. I have many friends I’ve never met in person but with whom I share ongoing telepathy experiences, for example. That also said, then I say, why not? Why couldn’t a Twin Flame couple reasonably experience the Soul Merge without having stepped foot into the same room?

I hope this helps! Blessings xo



In my initial post I meant to write the photo had a new blue backpack. Hence why I thought this may have more significant meaning re: the aforementioned dream. Also, I know this is a very difficult time re: the virus, I don’t expect a reply (even at all, necessarily) but doesn’t hurt to enquire about your services nonetheless. Thanks.


Are these pre-birth memories something you are born with or can you be shown them later I.e. as a child? (if that makes sense.) When I was 7 or 8 I had a few unusual dream experiences within a short time span of each other (not death-related unless my older brother was trying to choke the life outta me unawares ;) ). But I travelled/moved through this tunnel of white light feeling the most incredible joy, bliss and excitement I’d ever felt, it felt utterly heavenly and magical. I recall one time when I reached the end of this tunnel and the found myself in a huge communal living area/barn with lots of people sleeping, resting – everyone wearing loose, ancient-type robes. When I ‘woke’ the following morning I was heartbroken to find I was still here (‘Earth’ I guess!).

I’ve spent my nearly 47 years single by choice, I was never really interested in romance etc. and I don’t know why. I did have a couple of times in my late teens and early 20s when I dated but nothing came of it, then I fell I’ll with M.E./C.F.S. at age 28.

Over the past couple of years I began receiving telepathic messages (well, I’d had telepathy for last two decades occasionally but brushed it off as my imagination etc.). But starting in July 2018 I heard the message ‘reconduction in heaven" actually on my aunt’s birthday, then the singular word ‘heaven’ at various times after that with other additional very clear messages such as: “wrap your arms around me”, “heal my boyfriend”, “I’m an actor” <— got worried when I heard that as I thought it might have been my ego or something.. :/

But after having an intense dream earlier this year of kissing/being kissed by a woman (I don’t recall what she looked like) I woke thanking God for such a beautiful experience. In this dream, she handed me a brand new backpack and lovingly said to me “you knew” (then I immediately woke). Several days after this dream I heard the aforementioned voice “I’m an actor”, and the very next day my father travels to see a local play that has only three actors, one of which is a young woman. I got the feeling this may not have been a coincidence (it’s been three years since my father last went to a local theatre to see a play), then when I had a quick look at this actor’s Twitter picture, behind the black area that Twitter masks off with a circle there is a new blue backpack sitting next to her.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not stalking this individual but I can’t help but feel a bit intrigued about it at the same time. She looks extremely similar to both my sister and mother (at the same time, but also unique obviously) but I’d never seen her before in my life. I was thinking of booking a reading/session with you to get some clarity but only if it was by text chat as I’m quite shy. So, I’m not sure if you would be willing to do that or not? With having CFS I also don’t do well on telephone as my mind has to think and react very fast and my symptoms worsen quickly as a result.

Anyway, I’ll leave it with you. Thanks, Matt

Pamela Fleurs Boigie

I would like to know the specifics about the XYZ and ABC traits in personality. Thank you.


I have! Response to Naomi , 1 in 50,000.00 because that how unique this experience is! The first 6 months of the merger? I was in “LaLa Land” totally UPHORIC every second of the day going in very little sleep, very little food, and wouldn’t have traded it for the world. This person I haven’t met physically, but I look foward to the day, I’m in a descention stage now, triggering “Hot” & “Cold” flashes. From what I read it’s common with merging. Easier to live with now. More of my own person again! This merger was so intense??? I wasn’t myself for a while. Contact has been inconsistent, it comes like waves, and disappears the same way, which is painful. Dreams always warn that contact is coming. Always by text or sublimar messages on a social media. Telepathically I hear , but push it away believing it’s not real, when I know I’m my heart it is. Hope this helps anyone going though it. We are the few, and the chosen ones.


I must say I didn’t know anything about Twinflames & Soul merging until after it happened hence my seeking for knowledge. I meet him at work & the instant I looked into his eyes my heart chakra was fluttering & I thought I was going to pass out. Typically I don’t date anyone from work & although we haven’t come into physical Union yet I hope one day we will. The second time I met him through work we were standing closer discussing work & I looked into his eyes I was gone. I was looking directly at him but yet I wasn’t there as I was off remember off someone. I was so dizzy I nearly passed out. When we met the first time he had an extremely long beard we is not my type. The second time we met I recognised him because he was the girl I dreamed of when I was 16 & I have never forgotten him or his face. He was even in the occupation I had seen him in when I was 16 which is the army. Immediately he felt like home to me. We communicate without ever having to say a word & I pick up on his moods & how he was feeling all the time. It is without a doubt we love each other as it’s something you can’t explain. As you would expect we are going through the phases mention & I have yet to see if we come into physical Union but somehow deep in my soul I know we will.

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