What's The Twin Flame Soul Merge? Does It Happen In The Physical or Ethereal Realm?

I specialize in Twin Flames and Soulmates and have been in union with my own twin for a long time, so I’ll try to help.

The Twin Flame Soul Merge refers to when the two divided soul beings incarnate in the two separate human bodies merge together and “reunion” takes place, thus the soul becomes one again. I’ll explain… My Twin and I were located very far apart when we initially connected, and our Soul Merge happened once we met in the physical. This is how it goes for most. However, I’m open to the fact that it’s very possible to experience a Twin Flame Soul Merge without having ever met physically or even a Soulmate Chakra connection for that matter. I’ll tell you why…

Twin Flames are two halves of one soul incarnate in two separate human bodies: one half male energy and the other half, female energy. Twins are in their 3rd and final incarnation. During the first two incarnations, the soul being was incarnated as one whole soul being; as one person, either a male or a female. During incarnation number one, the soul was not yet divided, and the soul being was incarnate as a male (or a female.) During incarnation number two, the soul being is still a whole soul being and is not yet divided, and is incarnated as one person, a male or a female (typically, if they were a male during the 1st incarnation, they will be female in the 2nd.) Then, we reach this, the 3rd and final incarnation…

During this, the 3rd and final incarnation, the soul is split into the two halves: one half male and the other half female energy. Therefore, the twins are YIN AND YANG. One will typically possess all of the ABC traits while his partner will possess all of the XYZ traits, for example. During this 3rd and final incarnation as divided soul beings, these twin flames embark on their journey to union.

The purpose of the journey to union is to achieve union and the purpose of the union is the Divine Mission which is the reason why twins exist in the first place.

Twins connect in the physical realm when both are ready. How will you know when you’re both ready? Divine Timing ensures an accurate, seamless connection in the physical realm. This physical connection refers to 3-D connections including communication, and not necessarily being in close physical proximity to one another.

In MOST cases, the soul merge occurs the instant the twin flames connect in the physical 3-D realm and touch one another in the physical such as a hug or a hand shake. While telepathic communication and great empathy exist between one another prior to this aspect of connection, this physical 3-D connection is usually when the Soul Merge takes place.

Is it possible to experience a Soul Merge prior to physical connection? Well, let’s look at this spiritually and practically as well as scientifically.

While I am not God and cannot speak for Him, I don’t see why that isn’t possible. After all, anything is possible. On a side note, I came to this incarnation still carrying with me certain pre-birth memories and a mission so to speak which was communicated to me long before birth, that I have carried with me all of my life and didn’t talk about with really anyone until the past few years. This “message” if you will, referred to creation, to origin. While I can engage in such gifts, I did not “download” or “channel” my purpose, message or mission later on in life as I keep seeing many others claim to have done. I was born simply knowing what it was, and more so, the meaning behind why and why we exist at all. It was daunting, this “meaning of life,” so to speak, but I realized pretty young and early on that I was required to complete my purpose of assisting others back to truth and origin. I’m not alone; many other twins also carry with them certain pre-birth memories too. Since the last year of the Mayan Calendar 2012, most have been able to connect with one another via various forms of media with the interest of completing their Divine Mission. That said, I suppose God in His infinite wisdom put us all here at the right time. But I digress…

Everything is made up of energy, right down to the last grain of sand on the barely visible blade of grass stuck on the bottom of your shoe. Energy can be created, shifted and manipulated and changed. Once it has been created, you can’t dissolve it but you can shift or change it or shrink or grow it -and, CONNECT IT. This goes back to quantum physics and quantum mechanics. Soul energy is just that: another form of energy.

You see, I have seen first hand COUNTLESS Ideal Romantic Soulmate connections experience Chakra connections without having even ever set foot in the same country, let alone in the same room. The signs, syncs and symptoms of Ideal Romantic Soulmates and many other types of soulmate connections are practically identical to that of twin Flame, so there you have it. I have many friends I’ve never met in person but with whom I share ongoing telepathy experiences, for example. That also said, then I say, why not? Why couldn’t a Twin Flame couple reasonably experience the Soul Merge without having stepped foot into the same room?

I hope this helps! Blessings xo


Pamela Fleurs Boigie

I would like to know the specifics about the XYZ and ABC traits in personality. Thank you.


I have! Response to Naomi , 1 in 50,000.00 because that how unique this experience is! The first 6 months of the merger? I was in “LaLa Land” totally UPHORIC every second of the day going in very little sleep, very little food, and wouldn’t have traded it for the world. This person I haven’t met physically, but I look foward to the day, I’m in a descention stage now, triggering “Hot” & “Cold” flashes. From what I read it’s common with merging. Easier to live with now. More of my own person again! This merger was so intense??? I wasn’t myself for a while. Contact has been inconsistent, it comes like waves, and disappears the same way, which is painful. Dreams always warn that contact is coming. Always by text or sublimar messages on a social media. Telepathically I hear , but push it away believing it’s not real, when I know I’m my heart it is. Hope this helps anyone going though it. We are the few, and the chosen ones.


I must say I didn’t know anything about Twinflames & Soul merging until after it happened hence my seeking for knowledge. I meet him at work & the instant I looked into his eyes my heart chakra was fluttering & I thought I was going to pass out. Typically I don’t date anyone from work & although we haven’t come into physical Union yet I hope one day we will. The second time I met him through work we were standing closer discussing work & I looked into his eyes I was gone. I was looking directly at him but yet I wasn’t there as I was off remember off someone. I was so dizzy I nearly passed out. When we met the first time he had an extremely long beard we is not my type. The second time we met I recognised him because he was the girl I dreamed of when I was 16 & I have never forgotten him or his face. He was even in the occupation I had seen him in when I was 16 which is the army. Immediately he felt like home to me. We communicate without ever having to say a word & I pick up on his moods & how he was feeling all the time. It is without a doubt we love each other as it’s something you can’t explain. As you would expect we are going through the phases mention & I have yet to see if we come into physical Union but somehow deep in my soul I know we will.


I experienced kundalini/soul merge without physically meeting her. I’m a very logical person, and I literally caught kundalini and started the ascension process from seeing her on video. Grief triggered her, and then it triggered me via the internet….2,500 miles away. My life started mirroring hers. I had to see a spiritual chiropractor after my activation because the energy in my body was so overwhelming. Figured out that I’m some kind of empath on steroids and I’m a medium. I tell people about this (even spiritual friends) and they have no idea how to process what I’ve said because it’s so wild. I had to learn about astrology, empathy, birth charts, and chakra connections very quickly because my mind and body experienced such abrupt change. I even developed a meat allergy (she’s vegan) and lost 20 lbs because my diet merged with hers. Hahaha! My life is absolutely absurd now, but I’m happy to share my experience because I don’t want anyone to feel so overwhelmed and alone if this happens. I do feel like I’m having a ‘1 in 50,000,000’ experience though. I’ve never heard of anyone experiencing this kind of merge without meeting the person first. Thanks for reading!


After you experience the 5th initiation of fire you should not be dealing with 7 energy centers anymore. You should have ONE energy ball , a combined higher heart chakra. At this stage of things, the so called “twin flame hell” should be done. There’s nothing left to connect you back to them astrally. You have officially brought your astral fragment home. It’s yours to keep for good this time:-)

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